Matthew Case Study
From Anxiety to FreedomThe Challenge
I met Matthew through one of the Facebook groups I am admin of. From the beginning he seemed like a very smart, happy and energetic guy – the last person you would expect to have problems in dating. However, the opposite was true. During our Skype call, Matthew told me his story. He said he was O.K. with women before, but after his last relationship ended, he started searching on the Internet for ways how to meet women. That resulted in situations, when he would be unable to speak with women because of the crippling anxiety he started to feel.
The Solution
During our first Skype call, I mostly listened to Matthew. It was a pleasure as he has a shining personality. It was more like a friendly chat, but important point was, that Matthew was committed to work on the issue. After understanding his problem I shared with him my perspective on the matter and a plan to follow for the next week.
Matthew followed the plan and the simple exercise I gave him, changed his mindset completely which allowed him to break-through and speak with women effortlessly again.
Matthew's feedback after one week
Jan Case Study
Shy Guy Into Social GuyThe Challenge
Jan contacted me with the issue many men experience at one point in their life. He wanted to improve his love life.
Jan was a typical guy from Czechia, who had challenges meeting women because of shiness, yet he was very interesting in person. He was much better at having conversations than he gave credit himself for.
The Solution
In the begining Jan was very shy, but after spending with him three hours face-to-face he was already speaking with women in a park.
Not that it was the best example of flirting nor starting a conersation but he overcame his biggest challenge – starting a conversation with random women!
I remember how he walked up to two girls studying in a park while many guys would have challenge speaking with just one girl at a time!
This, however, was only the start of his journey.
Jan’s feedback about one year later: “I would like to let you know that your lectures worked. I managed to improve at conversation skills and I don’t even feel shy, which used to happen to me before. Anyway, today I simply sat down next to a complete stranger and got her number a moment later. I even told her that I liked her without any problem. Then I told her I’d call her tomorrow to set up a date.”